Friends...

Found this in my thumb drive..think i forgot to post it..even though some of the sentences does not stand true now, most of it still are..tat's y i decided to post it even though some may get offended after reading..hehe..so here goes..

Friends…What it REALLY means…

There’s no actual definition for the word friends.. Different people may have different concepts or opinion towards this particular word.. if u disagree wif my opinion, it’s ok, cos it only proves tat u are just another human, like me.. please take note tat these comments may not be true during later part of my life as my feelings and opinion fluctuates at every second of my life.. another thing I would like to warn viewers that this particular blog and those coming up may not be ur liking.. For this particular page I would like to comment on some of the meaning for FRIENDS (sorry if this sounds a bit formal..this is wat I call post-project syndrome..)

I used to feel that friends should not have any secrets between them.. Those who noe me well enough can verify that.. now, I feel that this definition cannot define the word FRIENDS thoroughly.. firstly, who on earth can have NO secrets at all.. A person wif no secrets, I’m sorry to say, haf no personality at all.. Look no further I was one of them.. I thought that by telling all my frens about how I feel towards them etc would help strengthen our relationship.. but I was WRONG.. utterly wrong.. Being straightforward may be good in some cases but the people today, including me, do not like to hear criticism from their frens although it’s TRUE.. once u hurt their feelings by being straightforward, be prepared to be ‘pulaukan’ by them for simple reasons like u’re not sensitive enough or u never filter ur thoughts etc.. other ideology includes that frens should be tolerant to each other and accept their weaknesses.. this brings us to my next point..

Many of us today feels that frens should be tolerant and accept each other’s weaknesses.. this like one of my previous definition of friends is another example of human’s utopia.. if this definition is true and everyone follows wat it says, there should be no discord among frens.. almost everyday at any corner of the world, frens, ranging from best frens, old frens, new frens etc, fall out among each other.. this will be the foundation of the typical gossips, backstabbing and all the ugly side of human.. remember, everyone is not perfect and everyone has the freedom to speak his/her mind.. having said tat, I don’t mean that I approve of ppl slandering each other.. although I despised backstabbers, we all must agree to an extend that the mouth is theirs..therefore they are free to make any comments, be it good or bad, about people and we have no right to interfere.. oops.. just figure out that I’ve side tracked a bit.. well back to our topic.. no one in this world can be 100% tolerant to one another and accept each other’s weaknesses and fault 100%.. not EVEN our parents.. from time to time there will be tiny little disagreements among friends.. if tolerance and acceptance is achieved 100%, will all this disagreements occur in the first place? How many of us actually saw friends around us become foes just because of a storm in a teacup? Because there’s no 100% tolerance and acceptance among humans (and it WILL NEVER be one except in ur dreams), small disagreements will end up to be big disagreements.. people who kept on insisting tat frens should be tolerant to each to other shortcomings may be THE one who make a big ‘hoo-ha’ about small matters like difference in opinions..

Finally, I think the best type of frens are those who trust u and from time to time have little disagreements wif u to entertain u towards ur ‘long’ journey through life.. I’m lucky to found a few of these frens.. but sadly to say, I’m far from being the ‘best’ type of frens..

Those who hates me to the core after finish reading this blog, all I can say is that I HAVE warned u.. so dun blame me, blame urself for being curious..

Ps: for those who feels tat frens should be 100% tolerant and accepting 100% of other people’s short coming, DO NOT, I repeat DO NOT, make any comments.. I dun wan to be ur excuse of breaking ur utopian definition of friends.. for those who beg to differ, pls feel free to comment about this blog.. Remember u are free to speak ur mind here..