The Ugly Side of Human (Part 1)

Firstly, i would like to warn whoever is reading this page, if you're unhappy wif wat i am going to write down here, there are a few things you could do :

a) close the page..there's this cute little x at the right hand side corner of this page
b) write down any comments you feel like it..no foul language though..we're in the 21st century ad..be civilised a bit for God's sake
c) go back and think..there is a high chance when u dun like wat u hear or see from ppl is tat it's the 'ugly' truth about you..so it's high time to do some soul searching

Secondly, i would like to say tat this article is not directed to anyone i noe..if u feel tat it's directed to you, it's just a pure coincidence..you should rejoice instead..cos u're not alone..btw i got this inspiration from the Russian school siege..a conclusion i made after reading the news..of course there's some 'changes' i made to accomodate the world i live in..both past and present..(not future though..cos we're never sure of it..)

So, are you ready to get on the ride through the ugly side of human..

Well, this world is full of deception..surprisingly, humans love it..they would rather hear the lies (some was tactfully called white lies etc..) than the truth..wan some concrete arguement?? well, how many of u can bravely raise your hands to indicate tat u are brave enuff to hear the truth?for those who did raise ur hands, ponder this, i beg you..how many a times u shun the thought of ur parents nagging at you? for things like:

a) boy/girl ar..time to exercise ad lor..i can see ur belly getting bigger each day wor..
b) play play play..always play computer games..study ar!!
c) dun sit so near the tv wor!!later eyes spoilt ar!!

pardon me..i noe i sound just like a 50 year old granma..but if i really do, pls tell me..so i can celebrate..cos tat would mean tat i've fully mimic the typical malaysian parents..although our parents may seem naggy at times they meant the best..mark my words..they are the only person in this whole world who dares to correct you when wrong and tell you the truth when u need it..they are also the only ones who can accept you when u erred first..why??isn't the answer simple and plain yet posseses great 'powers'..they LOVE you..but nowadays (almost everyday) i can see in newspapers that a child kills the parents after being 'scolded' for things like smoking..

then there are people who lie to their peers..to be wat people call cool etc..some just lie as they dun wan to be pulaukan by their frens for their 'odd' thinking which on the surface it seems does not has the same frequency as the 'majority' of the ppl..well i feel tat every1 should accept each other's shortcomings and understand tat the planet earth has plenty of homo sapiens in it..and not all of them has the same opinion each time..it's high time people learn to respect each others' opinion whether you like it or not..if you insist on saying everyone should have roughly the same opinions torwards sth, let me ask you this..why then there's so many religions in this world??if everyone thinks the same dun you think one is already good enough??well, according to some people, we should follow the majority's opinion..tat i agree..BUT to an extend..for example, when doing a group project, group members haf to follow majority's idea of how to carry it out etc..but there are things tat we as individuals should make the decisions..not by following others..things like choosing a religion..(using back the same example for ppl to understand better..)well, take for example if all your frens belongs to the same religion, are you going to change your religion just to FOLLOW the majority decisions?if it is so, then i pity all my frens..they haf to convert their religion for the sake of following..sad case man..

another thing about human is tat they dun have RESPECT for others..they feel superior than the rest and feels that there's no need for them to respect others..(i'm one sad case to..sigh..hey, i'm trying to improve k?)well, this causes the rise of unwanted dispute which claims many lives of the innocent..take the recent Russia siege, the Hitler's reign period..and our very own 13 may..all this rises from lack of respect among humans..no one is superior than the other..remember tat..the word is simpple yet tough to acheive..as we are becoming more and more civilised, we should respect each other more..rite? so why are they still cases like this??cases like the abuses done to the Abu Sayaff's prisoners??cases like rape, women discrimination etc?

Next, most people do NOT do wat they preach..we see cases like me..yes me..i'm toking for so damn long tat people should respect each other, learn to accept the truth no matter how ugly it is etc...but yet there are times when I look down on others, thinking i'm superior etc..there are also times when i prefer to kept on saying yes to everything when my heart has been shouting a solid NO!!! umpteen times just to please someone who never seems to try to please me just for once..all my life i hate people telling me tat i should control my temper etc..i just dislike hearing the ugly truth bout myself..i bet plenty of you has the same experience bfore..if you beg to differ, all i can do is congratulate u for making into the list of 'ugly' humans..side by side wif me..for telling such a 'beautiful' lie...

to be continued...

6 comments:

Elyne said...

What can I say.. well, you're thinking a lot back home, dun you? Haha. What a long entry you've posted here. The ugly side of human. I've written something about majority's choice some time ago. Fully agree with ya that people should make their own decisions sometimes 'cuz the majority aint right all the right. I've been doing things that are against my will for many years. Sadly. I didn't dare to voice it up 'cuz I'm afraid I'll lose some friends. Thinking it back now, I realize how foolish I was. You see, I think for others too much 'til I lose my own identify. In the end, I'm the one who get hurt the most. It's certainly not worth it. Lie Lie Lie. I hate it but I can't run away from it. Even I myself wear a mask to cover my trueself, at certain time.

neno said...
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neno said...

hey..wat you expect me to do..got nothing to do here at home..sien..can't analyse the data from Kelvin..then watch a lame movie..pretty much rotting at home..one day online more than 5 times..since so free so tot of making this blog 'alive' lor..since these are actually wat i plan to write for a long time..guess part two will come pretty late..cos now haf to go back to uni..anyway thanks for all your comments..love it!

Yan said...

yaya~ what sad fact, but this is humans, including me~~

suns said...

wei! ur blog die liao ah?

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